Christmas in America is good for the Jews……
…. is the title of Boston Globe columnist Jeff Jacoby’s recent essay, partly in response to a cranky Washington Post op-ed by Julia Ioffe titled “Please don’t wish me ‘Merry Christmas’“, here’s an excerpt of Jeff’s article:
I’m an Orthodox Jew for whom Dec. 25 has zero theological significance. My family doesn’t put up a tree, my kids never wrote letters to Santa, and we don’t go to church for midnight Mass. But while I may not celebrate Christmas, I love seeing my Christian friends and neighbors celebrate it. I like living in a society that makes a big deal out of religious holidays. Far from feeling excluded or oppressed when the sights and sounds of Christmas return each December — OK, November — I find them reassuring. To my mind, they reaffirm the importance of the Judeo-Christian culture that has made America so exceptional — and such a safe and tolerant haven for a religious minority like mine.
Ioffe writes that being told “Merry Christmas,” even once, is “ill-fitting and uncomfortable.” Hearing it for weeks on end is almost more than she can bear. “It’s exhausting and isolating,” she writes. “It makes me feel like a stranger in my own land.”
Is it really the Christmas cheer that makes her feel so alienated? That certainly isn’t the reaction Christmas evoked in other Jewish immigrants and their children. Not only were many of the greatest Christmas songs composed by Jewish songwriters , but several of those songwriters were themselves first-generation Americans. Irving Berlin (“White Christmas”) was born in Russia. So were the parents of Mel Torme (“The Christmas Song”). Edward Pola (“It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year”) was the son of immigrants from Hungary. And the parents of Sammy Cahn (“The Christmas Waltz”) came to America from Galicia.
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As an observant Jew, I don’t celebrate Christmas and never have. Do the inescapable reminders at this time of year that hundreds of millions of my fellow Americans do celebrate it make me feel excluded or offended? Not in the least: They make me feel grateful — grateful to live in a land where freedom of religion shields the Chanukah menorah in my window no less than it shields the Christmas tree in my neighbor’s. That freedom is a reflection of America’s Judeo-Christian culture, and a central reason why, in this overwhelmingly Christian country, it isn’t only Christians for whom Christmas is a season of joy. And why it isn’t only Christians who should make a point of saying so.
Cross-posted from Mark J. Perry